People love to advise others even if they don’t usually follow it themselves. So, understand yourself well and know how to give good advice before recommending others. Therefore, before advising others, you must understand yourself well and learn how to give good advice. Remember – lousy, unwarranted advice does not work. |
Valuable ways to advise others: |
Ask yourself questions to understand other’s expectations: – Questions clarify what others want from you. You may ask – “What’s going on?” or “How are you feeling?”. S/he should not be forced to speak to encourage. Listen to him first:– Let him express their emotions and issues. Don’t interrupt until he finishes. Analyze possible solutions: – Continue the conversation to evaluate the merits and plausibility of different ideas. Ask before you answer – let them be the smart one. Not Solutions â Offer Alternatives:- Don’t impose solutions on others, as it stalls the conversation. Your display of superiority frustrates them. So, offer a few options without forcing your choice. Remember – the best solution will work for them, not yours. Situational Considerations:- A balance must be maintained between productive and defensive behavior in advising others on modern and spiritual matters. |
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